Lilly’s story
To protect the child’s confidentiality, her name has been changed and identifiable details removed.
Lilly’s world turned upside-down with the sudden loss of her mother. Struggling with grief, her behaviour in school became challenging. Sometimes she seemed detached and emotionally numb; at other times she would seek attention in disruptive ways.
In her therapy sessions, Lilly found talking about her feelings difficult. But through drawing, she began to communicate what was going on inside. A recurring image was a house – often isolated, sometimes falling apart. Like her life, it felt unstable and frightening.
Gently, Lilly and her therapist began to explore her inner world through art and play. Lilly would often revert to baby talk and infant-like play, trying to reclaim the care and safety she had lost. Slowly, she began to make sense of the chaos inside her. In her weekly sessions, she felt safe and supported — able to start processing her loss, a small but significant step towards healing. Life without her mum was still hard, but she felt less alone.
You can watch an animated version of Lilly’s story here.